Today the buzzword in many churches is ‘discipleship.’ Churches are beginning to see the need and understand the importance of being in the process of discipling the people they connect with through their churches. Though churches are generally looking at discipling young and old; men and women; youth, married, divorced, single professionals, and the list could go on; here, we will be talking about men, regardless of their age or marital status.
Now, let’s be honest, with men, this is hard. A man is a hard thing to reach. Ministering to men is one of the hardest jobs in the church. In the book No Man Left Behind, the authors states that ministering to men is like rocket science. Getting men into discipling relationships is one of the hardest tasks you will undertake. Some will jump at the chance. Some will hear about it so much they will attend but will not truly commit to the time or group. Some will just blow it off. Some will say I am in a discipling relationship because I attend a Sunday School class or whatever you call your Sunday morning or home study groups. Many will not understand what a discipling relationship looks like and much less, why they need to be involved in such a group.
So often those who begin a ‘Discipling Group’ don’t fully understand where to start or what to do. They hear the concept and get caught in the excitement and they decide to start a group. There are groups where men come together to read spiritually related books and talk about them. I hear of men meeting to study deeper into theology. There are groups of men that gather together for breakfast or some other meal time for a time of fellowship. My question though, ‘Are these really discipling groups?’ Though there is nothing wrong with any of these and I support each of them, I still must ask myself, ‘Is this really discipling?’
What do you think? I would like to hear from you, ‘What is discipling? What is not discipling?’ In my next two posts, I will try and answer those questions. This will of course be from my own study and personal experience; but, I would like to hear from you. Either though the blog, my Facebook post or LinkedIn post.
There have been many books written and lessons taught on the subject. But I would like to know what do you think? Let me know. Maybe I will include some of your thoughts – anonymously I might add – in my future posts
Next post: What Discipling is Not.
Together in the challenge and adventure to disciple men – Mike